I've always found it odd that people will consider some quirk, say liking the color orange or a particular brand of shoes, as being more fundamental to their identity than some trait they share with a wide swath of people and that has much more influence on their worldview and behavior. Being told that our identity must be based on some uniqueness might actually be obscuring our identity.
Berkeley Backpacking Biz Lifer, System Builder, Coder, Community Organizer, Music and Evolutionary Biology Geek. Sign up and my projects at http://altabor.org/
